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# 1 Comfort

A best friend is someone you don't have to fill in the blanks with. They already know all the inner details of your life. "It's like picking up a book and knowing exactly where you left off," Belleghem says. You can cut to the chase and get right to the meat of any discussion because all the background information has already been stored away.

# 2 Connectedness

One of our most basic fears is being alone, Belleghem explains. Whether your best friend is around the corner or in another time zone, just knowing He is there provides comfort. "It gives you a sense of being connected and not just free-floating in space," He says. So if you find yourself feeling isolated, whether physically or emotionally, pick up the phone and call your closest pal. Both of you will feel better for it.

# 3 Unconditional support

You have yet to shower or even brush your hair and your best friend calls. He's upset and wants you to come over right away. What do you do? You get in the car without even changing -- because you don't have to. Best friends have seen us at our best and worst, and they love us either way. It's important to have someone in our lives we feel totally at ease with, Belleghem explains. Someone we can be ourselves with -- sweats and all.

# 4 Self-esteem boost

Good friends help us to develop our self-esteem, says Belleghem. "Having someone in our life who thinks we are important -- someone who wants our opinion on things and who values our company -- makes us feel wanted, boosting self-esteem," He explains.

# 5 Honest opinions

Best friends will also be totally honest with us, Belleghem says. They know you well and are able to tell it like it is. So thank your best friend the next time He looks you in the eye, shakes her head and suggests you rethink a possibly silly decision. He's got your best interests at heart.

# 6 A fresh perspective

We are all individuals, with different experiences and opinions, but having a best friend to share things with can help us learn new things about ourselves. The things they share with us can open our eyes to new ideas and ways to think about the world around us, explains Belleghem. "By bringing a fresh perspective to a problem, things have a better chance of changing," He says. Best friends can help us find those "A-ha!" moments that lead to solving problems.

# 7 Life lessons

When a close friend does something you disagree with, you're more likely to confront them and discuss what has upset you than if it's a person you aren't as familiar with. Getting through this with a close friend helps to prepare you for other times in life where you will need to face a difficult situation, Belleghem explains. "Now you have this skill in your life skills bag," He says.

# 8 Loyalty

Loyalty means never having to worry about someone spilling your secrets or talking about you behind your back. Best friends equal built-in trust, Belleghem explains. Most likely, you've spent years building your bond, which just gets stronger over time. "A loyal friend will be on your team no matter what. They will be honest with you, but won't betray you," He says.

# 9 Personal growth

Having a best friend means sharing experiences, Belleghem explains. Sometimes, when we get stuck in our own routines, it's nice to hear about what other people are doing. "A close friend of mine who didn't have kids opened my eyes to new things," Belleghem says. Often we can live vicariously through our close friends and learn about things we may not have thought about doing.

# 10 The best sounding board

One of the greatest things about having a best friend is being able to share -- everything. They are the ones to whom we tell things we wouldn't dream of telling anyone else -- our greatest fears and biggest mistakes. Being able to share these intimate details about our lives helps to normalize whatever has happened, Belleghem explains. "Fear or discomfort is diffused when you share it with a friend," He says.

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Harm Reduction Workshop: Reducing Risk for You and Your Loved Ones

If you are interested in an upcoming workshop Reducing Risk for You and Your Loved Ones - Safer Ways for Substance Use for Gay and Bisexual Men. This workshop is open to all men who have sex with men from diverse backgrounds including trans men and men living with HIV. For more information about this workshop or to pre-register visit http://www.newfiebear.net/links.html or to view the workshop flyer click here.

This is a non-judgemental workshop for guys who may use drugs or alcohol and are not interested in stopping, or may have someone in your life who is using and want to be better prepared to spot and reduce risks.

This workshop is useful for guys who want to know about:

how to use drugs and alcohol in safer way than they may be using now,
the types of drugs currently in circulation out the community, how they work and what to look out for,
how sex can often be involved and what to do to make this aspect safer,
the different types of community services are available, and
what happens when someone is using a substance but then needs medical attention.

Note: this is a group educational workshop on harm reduction techniques, not a debate about harm reduction vs. abstaining.

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